I know some of you have miscarried and I would like some advice for my sister. she just found out she lost the baby and is devastated! Please let me know if you have anything to tell her as I have never delt with that!
holy cow ... u have just gotten bad news after bad news lately. im so sorry. i have not experienced that myself either but i know a bunch of people that have and a couple of them really recommend this book from deseret book "For They Shall Be Comforted: Grieving the Loss of a Child" by Camille Call Whiting. it might help a little. =(
Hey Kim, i'm so sorry to hear about your sister. I wish i could say this is what you need to do to feel better but there really is nothing to help but time! When you loose a baby even if it's barley a baby it's like loosing a piece of your heart that you'll never get back. It's absolutely life changing even if it seem's little and dumb to some. I would just love her and let her know your there to talk or anything. That kinda thing is hard, ask Austin time is a big part of the healing. Tell her we are so sorry and we are praying for her to feel better. xoxo
I did in August, I had to go in for my D&C the day before we came out to Utah for My little sister Kristi's wedding. There really is not much you can say. It sucks, it hurts and you just have to be there to listen to her. Let her know you love her and that you are there for her if she needs to talk. Everyone deals with stuff in a different way. I didn't want peole to really say something cause then I would cry. I tried not to show people how bad it hurt. But just knowing I had people that cared helped. Sorry, I wish I had better advice.
holy cow ... u have just gotten bad news after bad news lately. im so sorry. i have not experienced that myself either but i know a bunch of people that have and a couple of them really recommend this book from deseret book "For They Shall Be Comforted: Grieving the Loss of a Child" by Camille Call Whiting. it might help a little. =(
ReplyDeleteHey Kim, i'm so sorry to hear about your sister. I wish i could say this is what you need to do to feel better but there really is nothing to help but time! When you loose a baby even if it's barley a baby it's like loosing a piece of your heart that you'll never get back. It's absolutely life changing even if it seem's little and dumb to some. I would just love her and let her know your there to talk or anything. That kinda thing is hard, ask Austin time is a big part of the healing. Tell her we are so sorry and we are praying for her to feel better. xoxo
ReplyDeleteHey hows your sister doing?
ReplyDeleteI did in August, I had to go in for my D&C the day before we came out to Utah for My little sister Kristi's wedding. There really is not much you can say. It sucks, it hurts and you just have to be there to listen to her. Let her know you love her and that you are there for her if she needs to talk. Everyone deals with stuff in a different way. I didn't want peole to really say something cause then I would cry. I tried not to show people how bad it hurt. But just knowing I had people that cared helped. Sorry, I wish I had better advice.
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